The Importance of Mentorship
Mentors make an enormous difference in the lives of their mentees. They can help with the development of life and career skills, the creation of social networks and support, and more. However, they also play a crucial role in the well-being of their mentees. These healthy, supportive relationships highlight the importance of mentorship and how we can influence each other for the better.
Mentorship Matters
A mentor offers guidance and support to their mentee who benefits from their knowledge and experience. Mentorship takes many forms and covers countless circumstances. Mentors may help with specific things like getting a job, succeeding in school, or with broader life or career goals. Mentors are particularly beneficial for youths as they tackle new challenges and gain experience.
When mentorship is available at a younger age, the impact is especially pronounced. Studies have shown that youths often receive the following benefits from mentorship:
- Increased high school graduation rates
- Healthier relationships and lifestyle choices
- Higher college enrollment rates and higher educational aspirations
- Enhanced self-esteem and self-confidence
- Improved behavior, both at home and at school
- Stronger relationships with parents, teachers, and peers
- Improved interpersonal skills
- Decreased likelihood of initiating drug and alcohol use
Mentors, themselves, also experience the benefits of mentorship! Many people report that mentorship brings a sense of satisfaction, improves self-esteem, and teaches life lessons along the way.
Good Mentorship
A mentor is there to listen, to be a source of inspiration and encouragement, and to nudge their mentees toward the best paths. Mentors don’t do things for their mentees, but provide them with the know-how and support to be able to accomplish those tasks themselves. This will look different depending on the overall goals of the mentorship and the mentor’s style, but often mentors will strive to fill three key roles: Confidant, Supporter, and Guide.
Because the mentor-mentee relationship is different for everyone, there are many ways a mentor may or may not suit someone. Often, good mentorship comes more from matching personalities and an authentic relationship than a list of qualifications. However, some basic qualities that mentors should demonstrate are:
- A sincere desire to help
- Respect
- Active listening skills
- Empathy
- Ability to see solutions and opportunities
- Flexibility
Here at For Others, we help youths affected by the foster care system restore their sense of belonging through relational permanency. The importance of mentorship in this mission cannot be understated. We match young adults who are aging out of the system with a safe and secure mentoring family. Through mentorship, reunification, and adoption, we’re supporting kids in foster care from every possible angle.
